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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm a woman and if I had to share my bedroom with my kid on a regular basis, I'd be a basket case. I don't sleep as well, and it can ruin grown-up time for both yourself and for you and your husband as a couple. A bigger place may be difficult finantially, but divorce isn't cheap either. It sounds to me like your husband is stressed and exausted. Where you live is huge. I absolutely hate sharing walls with the neighbors. It's possible your husband is the same way. Kids can be unpredictable, and if he has had to hear the neighbors fight, vacum, screw, cheer during a sporting event, and then his kid wakes up at a weird time on the next consecutive night, I can understand why he'd flip. also, what is his work situation like? Is he working long hours and held to a standard most Americans are not. That can suck his soul.  Lastly, it does seem you need to let your son grow up a bit. He loves the stroller so you let him ride in it? He hates public potties so you give him a cookie? At some point you need to teach your son that he's a big boy and he needs to walk, just like he needs to use public potties.  I wonder if your son is seeing that your son is manipulating you, not that your approach is being done to make life easier. I'd suggest you two see a marriage councelor and seriously look at moving to a more suitable place before divorcing. Give it six months to a year and if things are still unpleasant, you can divorce then.[/quote]

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