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[quote=Anonymous]Hi op, I'm a former VERY heavy weed smoker--I self medicated for years. Wake and bake, smoke at lunch, lots of breaks with my one hitter in the car. So that is the perspective I come from here, as from your description it seems that is where your husband is.

Any meds your DH is prescribed aren't going to do what they are "supposed to" while he is smoking. He needs to be honest with his doctor about what he is smoking, how much, when, etc. I'm going to assume that he isn't. I would also look at the strength of what he is smoking and how it effects him, not just blame the Wellbutrin or adderall. It all works together. If he is used to crappy schwag and buys some sticky good stuff, obvi his personality is going to change.

I'm also going to assume that he can find his own hookup and buy his own weed. That you aren't doing this for him. Why is it that he can manage to get his shit together enough to buy weed but not see to his own medical appointments? You say ADHD, I say priorities.

Quit mothering him. Yes, by making his doctors appts for him, you are mothering him. He expects you to do it all for him, down to "covering for him" when he says inappropriate things in front of your kid. That's not your job.[/quote]

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