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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You mentioned sexless marriage. 
How long has it been since the last time you had sex? Did he initiate? Did you?[/quote]

I don't remember who initiated, but I think August was last time, and it was 2-3 months before that.  He initiates most times, sometimes I do too. [/quote]

Hey!  August is not THAT bad.  I am serious.  I mean, while DD was very little once every 2-3 months was pretty much the norm.  At least this is not like the threads where some poor schmuck (or schmuckette) hasn't gotten any in 2 years or something.

Honestly, OP's depression is what makes me most sad here.  And she really does seem depressed.  When you are in the midst of depression (and I've been there), it is very difficult, if not impossible, to see things clearly or for what they are.  You are just so deep in your funk that everything looks like shit.  Is her DH oblivious because he is cruel and no longer interested in holding the marriage together or is he oblivious and not interested in counseling because he just doesn't understand how deep OP's dissatisfaction is?  There have been times where I am just so miserable and sad and dissatisfied and DH just doesn't even know how bad I feel.  And if I then blew up, he was just totally blindsided, even though as far as I was concerned, I was making it very clear how unhappy I was!  There could be so many things going on here, but OP needs to pull herself out of her misery first before she makes another move.[/quote]

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