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[quote=Anonymous]Nobody's arguing that a Saturday gymnastics class is unreasonable.  What we are saying is that 
1) If parents share a day (such as alternating Saturdays) they should decide TOGETHER how to spend that time and they should both contribute money to the activity.  Unless he and OP decided together that DD should take a Saturday morning class, then she has no right to dictate what her ex does with his Saturday
2) Even if ex agrees to the class, it is still controlling to call and "remind" him--doesn't sound like a reminder; sounds like marching orders, which he rightfully told her to shove.  If he agreed and then forgot or "forgot," then that is annoying, but still a valid choice he gets to make, since, again, it's his time with his kid.

Reverse the situation.  You see your kid two nights a week and alternate Saturdays.  Your ex decides that your kid should spend 2 hours first thing on Saturday driving to, participating in and returning from some activity.  Your ex claims that the activity is really your idea because you commented that you want your kid to be more active.  On your morning with your kid, your DD doesn't seem particularly interested in the activity and already had some outdoor time that day, so you decide that you'd rather spend those two hours talking and bonding over breakfast with your child, rather than sitting and watching at a gym.  Your ex calls to passive-aggressively "remind you" that you and DD have to go where ex wants on Saturdays.  How do you respond.[/quote]

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