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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your cousin moved in. Rules set include bfnot spending the night and that she let you know if she is not coming home at night. She broke first rule. You talked to her. She is now obeying all rules. Is this correct? I don't see what the big deal is now. Now you don't want her to spend night at bf's house at all? Or only a few times a week?

With that being said. Kick her out if you want. You are having a baby and it will be hectic at your house and you need the room. But I wouldn't tell her it's bc she's not following the rules. She is. Also, it's not like you're going to throw her on the street. She can move back with her parents or move into an apartment with some roommates.[/quote]

We knew she wanted to move in to be closer to school and also because she was fighting with her parents to be with the boyfriend.  There was an understanding that no boyfriend is allowed to stay over night and we had an agreement with her parents that she is to sleep at our place nightly so that we can be accountable for her whereabouts.   She has broken those rules twice already - he was staying over night without informing us and twice she was gone for weeks at a time only dropping by quickly to pickup things.   We told her if she continues using our house as storage, we would rather that she goes back to her parents so that room can be a nursery.

She did come back last night and straight to her room while I was on the phone so we didn't talk.   She's still family.[/quote]

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