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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I actually think there is much that can be done about it, and what you're doing is not seeing the forest for the trees. You are describing a scenario where you feel that you are shouldering more of the burden, more of the adult responsibilities, and being disregarded. You talk about his ongoing lack of attention to time etc... which can feel very disrespectful of you personally. If you look at the big picture what would help would be marriage counseling. Seriously. This is about more than a morning routine or the chore list. I'm not saying he's a bad husband, but you are describing chronic patterns that have been enabled to some extent by the myriad ways you cope. All of which adds up to resentment, imbalance, hurt feelings and a damaged marriage. I couldn't live with it and you shouldn't have to. Find a good therapist and I bet you and he can sort this out without too much hardship and both benefit greatly. Good luck.[/quote]
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