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[quote=Anonymous]Who knows what's going on in this marriage?  Don dsike DH is raisi g l if this for the first time right after a time of crisis.  Maybe he's just realizing argot image problem. Or maybe it's something else.  If OP is so oppressive, I'm surprised be said nothing to her about it, for his sake or for the kids, until now.  Pretty irresponsible I would think.

And perhaps DH also wants to place blame for his medical issues on someone else.  Cardiac problems are traumatic, and people can beefy feeling very helpless, that they jack control o re their lives in some fundamental way.  Perhaps DH feels like he has some control left by taking these steps in his marriage, like he can fix his heart if his wife would just change.  He may also be feeling guilty if he has himself contributed to risk factors for cardiac issues.  He almost left his wife and young children, for goodness.  I would feel terribly guilty if I did this due to my own mistakes and choice (lack of exercise, stress, poor eating habits).  Much easier to blame a spouse.

I am not saying what's going on one way or the other, but I wouldn't assume the worst about DH and the best about DH just because he had major surgery.[/quote]

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