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Reply to "DH just had bypass and says he wants a divorce "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] This is such an odd point of view. When people interact, particularly in the intimacy of a marriage, their behavior impacts each other. The fact that you think that he should just learn to be zen about being treated poorly and that is the answer - is not the key to a happy marriage, or to him staying alive. Maybe his problem is his wife's behavior...just like sometimes a woman's problem is her husband's behavior. You can't just act however you want and treat people poorly and then say that the only problem is how the other person is reacting. And someone else's behavior can absolutely contribute to your stress and well-being and health. If someone hits you on a daily basis, the problem isn't that your reaction isn't to accept it, the problem is that someone is hitting you! [/quote] Oh, if she's hitting him it's a different problem. I must have missed that part![/quote]
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