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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I recently separated from an abusive ahole with one child. As long as you can manage the expense of being dragged into messy custody and divorce issues plus two kids then do it. You will be so much happier once you are free of the burden that you feel being the only person trying to save your marriage.

Depending on how much you did pre-separation (I did everything) you will find single motherhood liberating and possibly easier than when you cared for him as well.[/quote]

I got pregnant a few months before separating from my husband. I got to actually enjoy the pregnancy, instead of constantly being driven and challenged and bad-talked like the first time around.

You need to disconnect the pregnancy from the marriage. I wanted a sibling for my #1 and wasn't going to give ex-husband the power to deny us that gift. I also wanted to be free of the constant, unrelenting anger stream that man carried around. So, my options were pretty clear.

You are co-mingling thoughts. Just answer two separate questions: Do you want a baby? Do you want to continue to have this man in your life, accepting that he will never change?

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