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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don't judge, ok? I'm not just going to grab the first Harvard guy I see and marry him, but I want to know where to meet these men. I spend a lot of time in Cambridge, but mostly see undergrads there. Where do the med school, law school, and b-school guys hang out?

Please don't hate. There are threads here about cheating on a marriage and people give advice on that; there's a thread about fetishes in the explicit forum and people want to have sex with dogs and their parents. Nobody is flaming them. I'm just looking to date a guy from Harvard, but am not sure where to meet them. If you don't like this thread don't respond. I'm just posting my question in this forum because it's anonymous and frankly I feel like the people who use this forum are in that kind of crowd anyway.

If you went to Harvard, or was part of the student social scene in Boston when you were younger, or live and work here, I'd love some advice. I live closer to Tufts and just moved here for work a couple months ago. Late twenties, fit and trim, well-put-together girl with her own job, with NO plans of becoming a SAHM. Thanks.[/quote]

I am not judging but I honestly find it a little off putting that you are specifically looking for a Harvard grad before you are looking for a nice upstanding person. I think that is a little crazy in fact.I really believe that just about any intelligent man (and think we an all agree that anyone at Harvard law) is intelligent would smell you a few feet away. I am sorry but it just hits a nerve with me.

Incidentally, i was on vacation in California and met someone there (learned we are both originally from Connecticut) turns out he IS a Harvard undergrad and law school grad, and we have been married 12 years now. Sometimes things happen when you are not looking for them. Did I ever think "gee it would be nice for my future husband to have been an Ivy school grad"? Yes, I did but never once was it my sole mission to only meet an Ivy league grad. Keep your optoins open and do not have such a narrow and short sited ideal of what Mr. Right should look like.....you never know until you find him. Good luck in any case.[/quote]

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