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[quote=Anonymous]Let me clarify. I do not dictate how much time he spends with his mother at all. He is free to go see her at any time for as long as he wants. And he is free to take our child with him whenever he likes and for any length of time. If I don't plan a visit or an outing, it doesn't happen. He has no interest in spending time with her given her emotional neediness. If she weren't such an emotional black hole, I would be far more inclined to work her into the schedule. She bugs the hell out of me. My husband turns into a frowning angry lump during and after any time spent with her. My time on this earth is short so I am not wasting it trying to make her happy because I can't. So I plan Thanksgiving, Christmas, and 3 birthdays with her. That's plenty. If my husband is pining for more time with his mother (he's not) he is more than capable of making the plans and executing them.[/quote]
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