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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I am sure there is more to the story than you say.  That said, no need to fill paragraphs with your initial post.  And if they were horrible to SIL as well, then well, you have your answer.  No chance of anything good, ever.

I think you should dump your therapist if the therapist suggested you try to patch things up.  Find one who realizes that you should not contact your parents ever again and that you should ignore their emails and threats.  They can see your children through your ex.  You might suggest that as the limit of your conversations and let them know that they should not contact you anymore.

And you should not speak ill of them, or at all of them.  If your chidlren ask say we  are not able to see them right now.

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Honestly, OP, in this case, I don't think you should have any more of a relationship with them than you do with your ex a's parents nd should treat the relationship the same way you would treat the relationship with your ex-in-laws. If they want to see their grandkids, they can arrange it through your ex. If your kids bring them up, speak of them neutrally and minimally, the same way you'd speak of your ex-in-laws.

Your parents cheated on you with your ex-husband, basically. They are welcome to pursue a relationship with him. You owe them nothing at this point.[/quote]

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