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[quote=Anonymous]My grandparents cut me off after I cut off their son, my alcoholic and abusive father. They did not consider me part of the family as it was (because I am adopted) and they felt that I was wrong and disloyal to not stand by him, no matter what he'd done. My father also told me that my adoption was a contract and that he could break it any time. From their perspective, I was the crazy one. That's not how I see it, but it took me a long time and a lot of therapy to learn how to not internalize their view. OP, even if the people you cut off try to blame you, you don't own that. If you know your reasons are the right ones, then the questions you should be asking (if I may say so) are why are you letting someone with their own agenda define you and why are you second-guessing yourself?[/quote]
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