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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My friend is about my age. maybe a year . She has a 7 year old and I have a 11 year old.
My friend and her daughter always put my daughter down.

examples:
if some lady is giving a candy to the kids, then if my daughter opens the candy wrapper and eats it, my friend says "look at her. she is eating it faster that the kids"
even her daughter once in conversation said to my daughter "you are old"

[b]she owns a home somewhere else. But she moved my community so that her daughter an go to the same elementary school that my daughter goes to.
now my daughter graduated this year and will be going to middle school[/b].

if we are walking on the side walk near the elementary school, friends daughter says to my daughter "this is not your school. it is my school"

My daughter who loves her elementary school feels bad because some 7 year old who will be going to 2nd grade is saying that its no longer her school. my daughter feels bad after coming home. she never says anything to the other kid because she did not know what to say at the moment.

Also another occasion when talking to a common friend she said something like my 13 year old is more innocent than her 7 year old. Then our common friend asked me if my daughter is already 13 and how time flies. then I told her that my daughter is 11.

dont know what is it with my friend and my daughter's age. she tries to always make her feel older. Initially it hurt me more. but now even my daughter started to observe. my friend always brings the age factor atleast once each time we meet.

My daughter is tall for her age and her daughter is short for her age. her daughter can fit into her 4 year clothes.

My friend's daughter and my daughter are learning swimmng from the same teacher and their classes are back to back.
My friend who does not know swimming always says, if your daughter is able to learn, then I will be able to learn.If did not have my kids to watch then I will be learning swimming. I also want to learn swimming like your daughter. After about 4 classes or so, I said, why do you want to compare to my daughter who is learning swimming now. why dont you learn like your daughter who is already a good swimmer.

please advice how to handle my friend. why this constant reminder of age. why should a 11 year made to feel old.
More information: I am big and my friend is slim and wears clothes from youth section from khols and jcpenny.

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This is just weird. [/quote]

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