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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Totally normal. It has nothing to do with the smart phone, contrary to the PP stupid assertation. If he didn't find it on his smart phone, he would have found it someplace else- just like thousands and thousands of other 13 year olds.

This is an opportunity to talk with him about sexuality, not to embarrass or shame him. Ideally your DH should be the one to talk with him. He needs to know that his feelings are 100% healthy and normal.

~Mom to three grow college-aged  kids. No baby mamas. No baby daddys.  We were always very open about sex.  I am positive that our attitude towards sexuality is the reason we don't have grandchildren right now.[/quote]
I know parents with attitudes like yours who's kids have had abortions, so don't be so sure of yourself.[/quote]

There are also parents with attitudes like the PPs whose daughters have not had abortions. As well as parents with attitudes unlike the PPs whose daughters have had abortions. As well as parents who think that:

1. having an abortion does not mean that you are a bad person
2. your daughter having an abortion does not mean that you have failed as a parent
3. whether other people, including other people's children, have or have not had abortion is none of your business.

I'm also impressed by the logical leap from "My 13-year-old son is looking at porn" to "Parents with attitudes like yours have kids who have abortions." Starting with the fact that the OP's son is not going to get pregnant, no matter how much porn he looks at.[/quote]
You're awfully defensive. Having an abortion has repercussions. There's no denying that. No one (that I've ever heard about) walks out after an abortion in the same way she walks out of the Hair Salon after a hair cut. No two people respond to "the procedure" in exactly the same way. Many women never quite "get over" it. It's always a tragic experience regardless of our politics.[/quote]

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