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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again - I will indeed honor what they've asked. But I remain feeling justified in thinking they are being unfair, and will end up needing the help. It is very different with their generation, as my generation relied on the family during these times, and they think they can do it all. I do know it is their choice, I just do not understand it one bit. [/quote] you dont need to understand it. you need to respect it. i loved having that time with my new baby and my husband and no visitors. it is such a precious time and such a wonderful moment for their family. family can still be helpful and what is helpful to the new parents may not have been what you considered helpful as a new parent. sure they might want help but they might not want it from you or the first week. and its not an i told you so if they ask for it later. it is not unfair just because you disagree and you would choose something different. [/quote]
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