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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op again,

Well Father's day started out OK, then turned into an all out blow out argument. Somehow it was my fault that our child was throwing tantrums and not going to bed. And then it turned into the ever so popular argument about how my family is worthless, doesn't help out enough and my Dad hasn't done enough to find him a job. Really - "find him a job?" like its my dad's responsibility? Everyone in my family or his had tried to help him out with leads. Nothing has worked out -but that's not their fault for crying out loud. Everything is about  how its everyone else's fault. He just has an excuse for everything and wants to blame everyone else but himself for not finding a job. It got even worse when he started threatening to leave and take our child with him. Its a low blow that he would even say something like that - and then I thought, can he do that? What kind of judge would allow a father to take a child away from a mother who is working and providing for the family? Seriously, is that possible? What leg would he have to stand on in that argument?

It just makes me sick. He deflects everything as its someone else's fault. This is the part that just kills me the most. He will not take responsibility for his life, or his failures. He will not MAN up. I did not realize this when we got married, but now I see it. Its almost as if he thinks he is entitled to a certain job or a certain life, like he shouldn't have to work for it. I just want to puke.

At this point, I'm starting to wonder if our marriage even has a chance. And our poor innocent little child.  I do not want to keep him from his father, but apparently his father has no problem threatening me to take him from me. I don't know what to do anymore....[/quote]

Reverse the gender role, and I have had the same experience going on 5 years.  Maybe zdH needs some counseling? Will he go?[/quote]

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