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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]And whatever you do, don't a child with him until you see whether he's willing to discuss these things and become a team player. [/quote]

We already have a child together.  This is my 2nd marriage, so I get that divorce is an option.  I'm saying to you all in this forum that right here, right now, it is premature to divorce.  I put that in mostly to help focus the comments.  Obviously, that wasn't very successful.

For those who have suggested that there is a learning curve and that it takes time, do you have any concrete suggestions as to help us through the transition.  I like the idea about the separate accounts & detailed budget.[/quote]

You already have a child together and he is making unilateral financial decisions?  He's agreeing to let a relative live with you without asking your permission?  He doesn't see anything wrong with this.  He refuses counseling or compromise.

Yikes, joint and individual accounts and a budget aren't going to solve your problems.

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