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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]FIL does not owe you anything. He does not owe your husband or family a certain vacation experience. FIL has a new life and he is inviting you and husband to be a part of it ~ if you want to ~ if you are ready. Totally reasonable if you are not ready, but it is not FIL's problem. Just tell FIL that you need additional time to mourn. Of course hopefully you can move past your reluctance, the sooner the better.[/quote] Wow you sound like a jerk![/quote] I don't know. I agree that fil should do as he pleases, but where things fall apart usually is when the merry widower starts making demands on everyone else to embrace the newbie. But, as noted, family life is a two way street, and many a widower in an all fire hurry to remarry has found themselves repenting in leisure. [/quote]
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