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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I find it odd. Like replacing something that clearly not be replaced.[/quote]

Are you a parent?
If I lost 2 children, I would want to have another child. I don't think it's odd.[/quote]

Yes, I am a parent. I could not imagine explaining to the child conceived out of tragedy that the only reason s/he exists is due to the deaths of other children. IMO it doesn't honor the memory of the dead. It's a bandaid for incredible pain and puts a child in a position, to be seen as 'replacement.'[/quote]

You're sort of attaching all of your own assumptions and issues to this.  You don't know what these people went through or why they did decide to have children again.  Maybe it's not a bandaid or an attempt to replace her children or an attempt to honor the dead.  Maybe it's just life going on.  How long should people wallow in sorrow and not move on?  Are you the type of person who just wants to wallow and linger in tragedy, pp?  These people wanted to have children, and now they will have children again.[/quote]

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