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[quote=Anonymous]I can't see how helping her dress is a sign of molestation. I dress my 7 year old son on many many mornings b/c he just takes too long. He CAN do it. But many mornings he just isn't getting it done at the time it needs to. I am NOT molesting my son. I am his mother and I'm getting his clothes on. That's something that parents do with children. I don't know what your households look like but 8-15 minutes is simply not available in my house in the morning during the week. I get the clothes out, if it takes more then about 1 mintue to get them on then time is being wasted and I help to move it along. For OP to say that the father is "lying" b/c he said he would let her dress herself but then helped her twice in a week, that makes no sense. That isn't "lying." Sounds like he tried it but it just didn't work out when he tried it your way for his schedule in the morning in his house. If there are signs the father is molesting the child then deal with those. This is not one of them. You and your husband/partner are separated/divorced. Seems odd to me that you should be dictating to him how to act in his own household - sending an egg timer? I think you are fomenting issues between your Ex and her father which aren't healthy for her in the long run. Back off. [/quote]
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