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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree that there does seem to be a gender preference for girls in our country. That's interesting that others have noticed this. I think it is sad and sexist, and does a disservice to the all-boy families. But I do think it is real.

I was out recently with my three oldest- all young adult daughters- and was approached twice in one afternoon by strangers commenting on them. Both times people said how lucky I was to have these girls, who so evidently enjoy each other and enjoy being with their old Mom, too. I [i]am[/i] lucky.

I have heard some version of this for years, whenever all three of them are together. They are very close in age and their chemistry is fun to be around.

However, I am lucky, not because of their gender. I am lucky because these are three healthy human beings who have grown to adulthood with a general compassion and kindness toward the world, each other, and me. That is why I feel lucky.

I would feel equally lucky to be out on a lovely afternoon with three young adult sons who enjoy being together and don't mind having Mom along, too. :)

In this day, to have more than one child, of whatever gender, is a true blessing. Enjoy it!

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Why do you think people are commenting on their gender when they say how lucky you are?[/quote]

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