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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you need to figure out what you want.  Right now you want your husband to move to a state you like better because everyone in that state lives how you want to live.  That is BS.  Even if you and DH moved to a new place, he will still have the same interests and the same priorities and goals for your kids and family.  So the geography is irrelevant.  You complain that you can't be happy in this life, but you don't want to do anything different because he won't participate.  Again, BS.  What is your goal?  A spouse with the same inherent interests and a desire to participate with you and your kids?  If so, you may need to look for that in your next husband.  If your goal is to change how you and the kids spend your time, then make the change and invite DH but don't pout when he doesn't magically develope a new personality on command.  The problem I see is that you married someone who is career- and status-driven, you are enjoying the benefits, and you are blaming him for your unhappiness.  If you truly would rather be poor but footloose and fancy free, then leave him, but you can't expect him to change just because you no longer value his good traits.[/quote]

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