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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I totally appreciate the honest thoughts.  I am trying to figure out if I'm as ungrateful as he describes or if he is sort of a loser.

My husband says he is doing many other things and I just don't see what they are and that if I am that blind it shouldn't be his job to account for every minute of his day.  It's a catch 22.  If I ask him to tell me what he does with his time he feels disrespected, if I don't know what he does with his time or don't see much productivity, I start to think he's a bum, we spiral down.[/quote]

OP, you are not ungrateful. He is a loser.  I also don't think you are blind.  If he has been out of a job for 10 months, and not sent out one resume, WTF?!?!?  If some large employer asked him what he did with his time while idle, what would he answer? What could he answer?!  If it walks like a duck, swims like a duck, and quacks like a duck, IT IS A DUCK.

The solution is simple: 1) Separate, and boot him out 2) Stop paying the counselor 3) Toss his shit out to the curb.  Are you married and in a relationship, or running a shelter for bums?  And what the heck does the counselor say?  [/quote]

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