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[quote=Anonymous]I am sorry your son moved so far away from you.  I am sorry you were not included in the invitation.  It sounds like your son is trying to keep several people happy.  He wanted to keep you happy by not eloping.  He is trying to keep his future wife and her happy by honoring their traditions too.  (He is in a tight spot when traditions conflict/collide.  I am thinking that his future MIL might not be pleased about her daughter converting to a different religion.  Did she convert because of your son or was she in the process of converting prior to meeting your son?  Would you rather have your names on the invitation or have your DIL not convert to Judaism?)

Are you and your husband on very limited budgets?  If so that would explain the $1500 contribution to the wedding parties. However, you have not indicated this.  Even if your son and his fiancee did not choose a destination wedding, you would have had hotel and airfare costs.

If you are not on limited budgets, I would pay for all of your other daughter's expenses and offer to pay for more of the other expenses - don't nickel and dime of you have the means.[/quote]

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