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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, the invitation is correct from an etiquette standpoint. However, if you are Jewish, it's traditional to include the groom's parents. Is this why you are so upset? [/quote] We ARE Jewish. Well, except the new DIL who is only converting. Dh and I just feel horrible. Our son said no to us coming to their eloping. It's embarrassing to think our friends and family may ask why we aren't listed on the invite. [/quote] Then try to understand that the bride and her mom (who aren't Jewish) probably had no idea that this might offend you. Since you are the groom's parents, can you host the rehearsal dinner (and pay for it)? That way you can send out your own invitations and invite anyone you'd like? I think that this probably all boils down to a difference in cultures. [/quote]
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