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[quote=Anonymous]This is OP, it is great to come back to this thread and read new thoughts, as well as re-read all the advice. I keep thinking about this - what is my responsibility, how can I turn things around...

DH and I are still not in a good place. We have fallen into the low point of our usual cycle, where we feed off of each other's negative energy. One of us needs to make a few steps forward to connect us again, and I am really trying to be that person, but I am finding it so, so hard right now. I am just too tired from everyday life.

I see a lot of good advice, but I think making some changes in him on these little everyday things will need to be shelved right now. We are just too sensitive about everything. We need to have some happiness and enjoyment back first. I don't even have the energy to start big conversations.

I just bought a big family calendar, and I will organize us a little better, with to do lists for both him and me to see, not just me. I will write a list of all the bills and their due dates, account passwords etc., so he can be in charge of that. I will also leave the dishes in the sink, if he insisted that he would do it but then falls asleep on the couch. The next morning he will need to wash and make bottles for the baby because he takes him to daycare.

And I will try not to feel petty thinking like this, because I honestly do, and I like myself even less... [/quote]

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