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Reply to "I am mean, unhappy and make everyone miserable"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you've gotten a lot of great advice here, which is important, because I think there isn't "one magic thing" you can do to get your life back on track. Attacking it from a lot of different angles is key (but +10000 to the therapy advice -- it's just like going to a personal trainer at the gym. You resist because you know you'll have to really work and it will be uncomfortable, but that's the only way to get results). I just wanted to throw one more thing against the wall to see if it sticks: one thing that really helped me was to get away from the mindset of "I will list all the chores that need doing, and DH will pick some." Instead, I told DH "Look, I love you, but you are a grown-ass man, and I am not your mom. Look around, see what needs doing, and do it." It took a while, and we both occasionally fall into the old pattern of drill sergeant/grunt, but we recognize it and break the cycle. Anyway, I hope you're doing better. Good luck![/quote]
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