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[quote=Anonymous]Well, here's the thing. He admitted to cheating and picking up one or two women. There were more. There ARE more. Because you stayed, he knows you feel guilt about leaving because of the kids, and he's got you snowed, thinking YOU'RE the one doing something wrong by snooping after he's proven himself a cheater. He doesn't have to pay you child support or lose access to his kids and he gets to have flirtatious emails with coworkers and one night stands around the country. He's getting off scot free here.

You have two choices: decide to leave, or decide to stay. If you KNOW you're not going to leave no matter what, then just don't bring it up and stop snooping. Because you're causing yourself stress and heartache. I don't advocate staying, but you seem set on that, so you really just need to adopt the blind eye approach. Don't go looking for evidence of what you know is going on. Don't confront him about something he's not willing to change and which you're not willing to leave for.

If you decide one day to muster up some self-respect and think you can leave, then confront him and give him the option to change. And REALLY change, not give you the run-around. But if you're really and truly unwilling to leave him, you're just going to have to suck it up and make the best of it. Because otherwise you're going to be making yourself sick trying to find all evidence of the cheating you KNOW he will be doing, then starting fights with him, and then what's the point of staying, since your kids will be in a miserable home? Stay or go, but if you stay, know what you're in for and accept it. Because it won't change unless you force it to. This is who he is. [/quote]

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