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[quote=Anonymous]Life is certainly random and I try not to judge - I have been through enough myself. But how fair is it when your child is a toddler and you have no energy for them? Do you think it will get easier? Do you think it is fair to them? I am an older parent, so I am grateful for every day. But I also feel I *OWE* my children a childhood - I brought them here!!!!!! NP here. I know this will get flamed. It just breaks my heart when I see women with disabilities /illnesses (seen or unseen) that have every excuse to be "tired" yet they are front and center with every conceivable interest in their child. I don't understand able bodied women that are lazy. I get it, we all lose energy as we age, but is it fair to your children, who you brought here and supposedly wanted, to barely apply yourself, if at all? How are you helping them in life by being so detached (and that is what it is)? Not saying this is the majority. [/quote]
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