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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thank you for taking your time to help me and the others who read this.

I forgive him in the sense that it no longer causes me pain due to the affair. The pain I feel is in myself and my inadequacies in myself. They have come to the forefront because of the situation I am in. I am positive in that I will be ok however walking away from what was my life is oh so hard. I cannot accept another relationship from this same man. If the problems we had before discovering this were it I might have been able to stay. This affair on top of all of his other problems is too much to bear. I'm like a dying butterfly, slowly flapping its wings to keep going. Only until I leave will I be able to get the air I need to survive.[/quote]

If you are leaning toward leaving, start figuring out your finances.  You can resolve that you are leaving, but give yourself time to get your ducks in a row.  You can get online and look at you state's child support calculator.  Think about custody and how you would like that to work.  I'm divorced and it really is important to get those things in order.  Also, you'll have to forgive even if you divorce because you will need to have a civil relationship in order to be the best parents for your DC.[/quote]

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