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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I haven't followed it all the way, but I remember being shocked that they located the biological parents and they didn't choose to sue for custody.  I get why it's not the birth couple's fault, but I couldn't be so generous.

I went through IVF and I can't imagine being either couple in this scenario.[/quote]

I think it was a very loving choice by the genetic parents.  They didn't want to take a baby from the only family it has known or put parents who had bonded with and carried a baby through the pain of loss.[/quote]

Well sure, I called it generous.  I just couldn't do it.  [/quote]

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Maybe the couple "lucked out" in the sense that the biological parents had already completed their family, and it was a surplus embryo. We're not given any details but it could be something along those lines. [/quote]

Is that actually lucky? Can you imagine being the biological couple’s other children and knowing that your parents would just give your siblings away? It would make me feel very disposable. [/quote]

They didn’t just give the kid away, nor did they treat the baby as disposable. But way to make adopted kids feel like crap. Some of your people are so one dimensional. We have no idea how long ago the embryo was frozen or whether the bio parents were in a marital, physical, emotional or financial state to become parents again. [/quote]

+1 People who have never been in this position don't know what they are talking about.

I myself used a donor egg and while my child may not be biologically genetically mine,  he is my kid not some random egg donor's kid. Granted my kid is the same race as me but people suggesting the bio parents should claim custody are delusional. You don't know their family situation.

I'm glad the birth parents want the child enough and did not give her away.

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