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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm not trying to be harsh, but he is correct.

If you care about your marriage, discuss with your doctor what is uncomfortable about it and what can be done about that. It's already been months, and it sounds like he's pretty frustrated.

Instead of shooting him down, tell him you are making a doctor appointment to address this issue.  If he's a decent guy, he will be patient while you work on figuring this out.

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No one gets good sex by threatening. The best way for the spouse to get his wife interested in sex again is to approach it as a caring loving partner.  The sexiest thing he could do is take on a greater share of the child care. Go care for the baby when he/she cries at night. If the baby needs to nurse (ie, mom MUST be involved), bring the baby to her, and when the baby is done feeding, take him /her to burp and put back to bed.  Or talk about mom pumping during the day so she can sleep through a night feeding.  Give her more time away from the baby and house chores during the day. Do this for a month, and see if she doesn't suddenly find sex with you much more appealing.

And yes, of course, if there are new pains etc associated with sex, a discussion with the doctor is appropriate. It is never healthy for either partner to approach sex as a demand or requirement from a partner. Take a lowering of desire as something both of you can lovingly address together. [/quote]

Be real. Choreplay will just lead to duty sex that both partners will end up hating and resenting.

OP, can you ever envision being sexually attracted to your DH again (if you ever were)?  The real answer lies in that question.[/quote]

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