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Reply to "My ex is married and has a baby due any day now. We haven’t been broken up two years yet…"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would let this go. He knew the other person a lot longer. Plus his relationship with you may have changed his thinking in unknowable ways, good or bad. He probably told you what he thought he should say...that it was up to you what to do. The fact that you decided the way you did suggests you weren't madly in love with him. And his reaction suggests he wasn't madly in love with you. So you parted. You can complain a little about how unfair the universe is but I don't think you lost out on a great dad and husband. Move on.[/quote] I was madly in love with him though. I decided what I did because I thought he didn’t want the baby. [/quote] seriously? if you are saying you wanted to be with him and have the baby, you didn't communicate honestly with him. "2 years into our relationship I got pregnant. I told him and he didn’t immediately jump for joy, or say anything really except for “okay”, so I reacted very quickly and told him I wasn’t going to keep it. To which he said, “I’ll support whatever you decide”. So, I got an abortion." you should have had a more open and honest convo with him if you wanted to get married and have his baby.[/quote]
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