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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A. You're a troll doing an anti-abortion thing.

B. You're stupid. He told you he divorced over his wife's decision not to have kids. You took his lukewarm reaction as a signal he didn't want kids. He moved on to someone who actually really did want kids. And now you're left all by yourself with no kids. Congrats.

Pick A or B.

Either way, you're completely ridiculous and should be ashamed of yourself.[/quote]

I didn’t add this part but before I got pregnant, months prior, I mentioned us moving into together and he didn’t want to. I got spooked by his reaction even more so because I thought, if he didn’t want to live together and he didn’t automatically jump for joy, I thought he didn’t want the baby? [/quote]

This has to be a troll.  Even when you're actively trying to get pregnant you don't immediately "jump for joy" about a baby because it's definitely a weighty situation.[/quote]

I had never been pregnant before and he had never gotten pregnant before, so how was I supposed to know this? I just assumed if it’s something you want you’d be pretty outwardly happy about it. I guess I just had a script it my head…[/quote]

You were right, and that script is healthy and normative. PP saying you don't "jump for joy" is a nutjob. I'm a father of four and I was outwardly and inwardly every bit this happy and expressive, except at the last one, which was on the heels of a previous miscarriage. So I was a little more measured, but still very joyous.[/quote]

How long were you with your girlfriend when she announced the unplanned pregnancy of your first child?[/quote]

She also said they'd been fighting before she got pregnant. Expecting someone to immediately jump for joy about a baby in that situation is bonkers.

If OP isn't a troll, she needs to own her choices, take a lesson not let what she thinks someone wants dictate her decisions.  You have to actually speak up for what you want.[/quote]

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