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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You see them often enough that the drive is clearly not a big deal for them.  I really don't get why you didn't invite them.  It causes no extra work for you.  You don't need to figure out if it works with your schedule.  You don't need to figure out transportation.  If they normally stay with you, you could have had DH book a hotel, which takes all of 5 minutes.  This seems like a major oversight on your part and I'm really surprised you need so many people to point this out for you.  [/quote]

Why is it an oversight on her part and not the husband? Where is the husband in all of this? It is his family. Also, I bet if you book a hotel for them, then they’re going to be offended by that so you can’t win. Let your husband deal with his family as anything you do is going to be critiqued and judged. I would ignore her complaints if I was you. Who has time for that?
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I can guarantee OP was the hostess who planned the party and issued the invites. In that case it would be on her to extend an invite to the ILs as well. It's always nice to just be invited, even if it doesn't even make sense for the to come. Issue the invite, they say no, and everyone's happy. [/quote]

This isn’t preventing the husband from extending an invite [/quote]

Of course it is. Did they both sit there and add addresses to the evite one by one taking turns? Did he invite his friends and she invited hers? The person putting in all the recipient information does all of it. It's not a 2 person job.[/quote]

And he’s not doing any of it. His parents raised a spoiled man who doesn’t help with party planning. The daughter in law has to deal with her adult child. She doesn’t need them staying at her house too.[/quote]

Ah the parents spoiled him but OP married him so she saw something good enough. Or she was desperate.[/quote]

Or she married him but not her mother-in-law.[/quote]

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