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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think your husband may be in the spectrum.
I personally would stay for the sake of the kids since there is not much connection but not abuse either. Hopefully things may get better with some help (therapy? More couple time when kids grow up?). I have seen in my own family that a ‘not picture perfect but stable family’ is much better than a grumpy divorce
Ps. Not sure what is your ethnic background but in many cultures (mine included) [b]marriage is more about shared responsibilities and commitment rather than lovely feelings[/b] [/quote]
+1  Sure, at times, you will be angry with your spouse, and maybe even think about divorce, but at the end of the day, it is definitely about a commitment to the family and relationship.

Passion fades.  The love morphs into something different, more deep but less passionate compared to the first few years.  It becomes about family.  IMO, a lot of men seem to care more about themselves than their family and kids.
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