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[quote=Anonymous]Does you paying but it coming out of the jaunt account not allow your partner the plausible deniability to feel “treated” when you pay? I thought that’s what it was for. So if you say, “it’s coming out of the joint account, will you just pay while I’m in the bathroom?” that definitely doesn’t feel like being treated. But if you always reach for the check does it still not count because they know it’s coming from the joint funds? I think you need to have a convo at a time when you are not out to dinner to see what the issue is and to make your case that you can’t afford to “treat” for all meals out. You can point out ways you “treat” with your labor, and ask if they can see that and adjust their expectations. But ultimately, if it’s a difference in values about how much money is ok to spend, then there may not be a solution. [/quote]
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