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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Counseling is, in general, useless unless the person wants to change and wants to know how to go about it. [b]We went to couples counseling some time ago, and the first thing the therapist wanted to know is who her client was (of the two of us) and went on to take that person’s side while bashing the other. This, of course, makes the “client” happy and the therapist’s money flowing. [/b] Realize that people are who they are; unless abusive, either accept it or move on. Changing the other person is an exercise in futility and only ends up making one or both resentful. [/quote] That doesn't sound ... competent.[/quote]
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