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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yeah good advice if you want a doormat for a boyfriend.  Waiting for a month while she gets her back blown out by another guy and if she has her fill of that, it's his turn?

That's a low self esteem man and they don't make good partners.[/quote]
He has a high self esteem, and he wasn’t passively waiting for me and met with someone else too while I was on the trip. I didn’t expect anyone to match with me and just sit at home alone for a month, waiting for me. He just behaved and behaves as someone who is greatly interested in me specifically - since I became available, his full romantic attention has been on me.

There were two other men who were waiting for me to come back and start a relationship with them. One of them had been so attentive and texted me multiple times a day but then called me while being drunk and then I saw a call from him coming through at 5 am, and I blocked him.

The second one owns two companies which operate smoothly and don’t require a lot of his time, so he sent me dozens of messages every day because he was so excited about me. When I came back, he brought me a lot of groceries (he didn’t want me to come home to an empty fridge and bought food for me as a gift, upon his own initiative) and took me out to dinner at a fancy restaurant. Next day, he came over and brought 6 boxes of Thai food.

It’s truly nice to be taken care of and having no doubts that a man is interested in a serious, long-term relationship. For example, just yesterday my boyfriend started planning where we can go two years from now, and it gives me a lot of much needed comfort. [/quote]

How old are you ? What’s the weight, age and income gap between you and the listed men ?[/quote]
I’m in my upper 40s, average weight. A rich man who pursued me is 7 years older, normal weight. My boyfriend and a guy who called me drunk are 3 years younger than me. My boyfriend is definitely in a better physical shape than I am (runs marathons, etc.), and he is more educated (PhD), but I think my income is higher (we haven’t discussed the numbers, and he is always paying for both of us when we go out, so it’s not like he is benefiting financially from my higher income). [/quote]

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