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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Unless you’ve been widowed, working and holding your kids lives together, you have zero grounds for judgement. And if you’re judging, step your behind up and offer to help with concrete items/plans the next time you have a prematurely widowed parent appear in your world. Also keep an eye out for close friends who suddenly think she’s about to husband poach. It is a miserable place to be.[/quote] Actually the judgment has nothing to do with her being a widow. It's with her choice of destination. There's lots of vacations a.person could pick that don't strongly imply excessive drinking, gambling, and casual hook ups. And OPs advocating for this can be judged as well. I wouldn't expect any spouse who cares about their marriage would want their spouse to go on a guys trip or girls trip to Vegas without them[/quote] You can spin your hateful judgement any way you want. You’re still a shit person. No one cares where she went. A 65 year old CEO of my company just came back from a concert in Vegas. She did none of those things. You are not not only evil, you are also very stupid. That’s the worst combo. [/quote] The OP said it was for kind of once in a lifetime concert experience. If a band you love is playing at the Sphere for a short time, you go. I did. I'm not saying it was at the Sphere, but Vegas is so much more than just drinking and gambling. I've gone with my girlfriends several times and we have never done more than video poker and shows. You people are seriousnly weird [/quote] + 1 though honestly I think its just one repeat weirdo poster. I’m not by any stretch a huge Vegas fan but have ended up there on a couple of occasions for reunions with college friends in large part because it has affordable/direct flights from almost anywhere. Not to mention warm weather, reasonably priced hotels with nice pools, spas and other amenities, great restaurants and a wide range of concerts/shows. No one in our group was looking to hook up, drink excessively, or do much if any gambling.[/quote] +1 been to Vegas a bunch of times and none of those things that crazy prudish PP was saying apply. It's an inexpensive direct flight from most of the country, nice hotels, pools, shows, restaurants, bars, you don't need a car... It's a common fun place to meet up and not everyone is there to cheat on their spouse! Agree with OP that no one should be judging the poor friend. [/quote]
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