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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Please stand up for yourself. I have a strong presence and try to stand up for more taciturn people.

Then those people, for whom I stuck out my neck, are dazed and passive and have nothing to add when the moderator calls on them. They are just vacant.

It’s bad all around. I have never observed what you described so I’m really puzzled. Also, no one owes you air time. Practice phrases like “I want to jump in,” “excuse me,” and “I need to step in.” That takes practice. And confidence. [/quote]

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From the other side. I'm a Christy. Everyone is always using my name as the example "what Christy said" but you know what? I do it a ton too. "What Barry said". I know people on here hate people like me but I get stuff done. I am complimented for how I "think on my feet". I talk fast, I interrupt, but I will also circle back around (quick mind) and apologize for cutting you off but then I get to the point and draw out the information the group needs from you. The slow thinkers and talkers aren't necessarily more deep and thought out. Us quick thinkers and talkers are also very quick at processing and have already come to conclusions and we're waiting for you to catch up.

Sometimes it's not worth our time. [/quote]

Well, we found the holier than thou @ssholes, who can’t listen with their inflated self-worth and therefore aren’t all that because they miss the nuance, the complexity, the real inventiveness. [/quote]

Can’t stand people like PP[/quote]

😂😂😂 OP did ask what it's like on the other side. It's literally in the title! [/quote]

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