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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Does she not have kids because she doesn’t want them, or because she couldn’t have them?

Or was she raped as a child and doesn’t have kids because she’s terrified to bring a vulnerable child into this broken world? And would you even know if that was the case?

Many people who were terribly abused as children NEVER tell their friends and loved ones; many never even get therapy. Many only disclose in anonymous support groups, which was the only place I ever talked about it until my 50s when I finally disclosed to a therapist. Most of my very close friends and family know nothing about it.

I love my friends’ children and my nieces and nephews but it hurts me to be too close to them. You might look into attachment disorder and think about which kind your friend might have. What looks like self centeredness to a shallow thinker might in fact be profound pain. [/quote]

Dp. You’re probably right but at a certain age, people have to face their challenges and learn to treat others better. Or they won’t have anyone around them.

Sadly, many victims of abuse become abusers themselves [/quote]

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