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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Larla and Larlo are both right.
Larla and Larlo simply hold different beliefs.
Larlo likes to sleep around until being asked to be exclusive.
Larla values a man who is naturally exclusive without needing to be asked.

Because of this, Larla should break up with Larlo.[/quote]

OP. I think I agree with this. Neither is 'wrong', but they're just incompatible.

Larlo is still actively pursuing Larla and seems to genuinely want a relationship, but Larla doesn't want someone who needs a discussion over everything they can/can't do and is concerned it will cause future problems. Part of the problem is in her last relationship, her ex would do things such as getting on dating apps or talking to women on social media and claim "you never SAID I couldn't DM random women!"

I think I'll tell Larla to just move on, even if he's a decent guy, they're just not compatible.
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These are two different situations. What you described in her previous relationship is cheating - assuming they were monogamous and exclusive. What Larlo did is not cheating. When she asked (after the fact) he was honest. There was no expectation of exclusivity. [/quote]

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