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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As a blanket statement, no. Some students have parents who are working 2 jobs, or are in foster care, and they should absolutely not be penalized for not having basically a SAHP who can volunteer 10 hours a week or a rich parent who can fund the entire PTA. If we are allowed nuance- I do think that if a parent is an unusually helpful volunteer, or takes on volunteer tasks that one one wants (everyone wants to chaperone the cute half day field trip with their child, no one wants to volunteer to mop the cafeteria floors and take all the trash to the dump after the school carnival ends at 9pm), it should not be frowned upon if that kid's family maybe gets picked to run the most fun carnival booth, or maybe if a parent volunteers to be the backstage mom at a drama club performance- therefore not getting to watch her child perform, since she's backstage, this is a classic job that no one signs up for ever in our school's drama club- then that student's family (the other parent, etc) gets front row seats to the performance and a free copy of the DVD recording to show to the backstage mom afterwords.[/quote] Both those examples are preferential treatment for the parent/family, though, not the kid, which I think makes it pretty different.[/quote] Yes, sorry, I should have been more clear- I think the family can have preferential treatment that is directly related to the thing they're helping out with, like my examples. I don't think the child should get a better part in the play just because the mom has volunteered to be the backstage mom for every performance, definitely not. [/quote]
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