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Reply to "Feeling resentful after sacrificing for my DH’s career—how to restore balance?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]But do you have good benefits from the sacrifices? I could get resentful if I let myself. But I remind myself of what we have because of my sacrifices and it makes me feel better. It doesn’t serve me to dwell on my sacrifices, to be honest. So I just don’t.[/quote] This^. If those sacrifices were mutually agreed upon and benefited you, your spouse and your children, there is no point in resentment. If you don't wish to do so in future then communicate and plan with him. May be he can't make required changes this month but in a year or two. May be y'all can delegate some of your responsibilities to get you more flexibility. Don't forget that resentment is one of the main reason for divorce. Look forward, not backwards. [/quote]
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