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Reply to "Intimacy with an ex-spouse - is it weird?"
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[quote=Anonymous]It just means neither of you are especially good at maintaining boundaries. Sometimes two people like this find each other. The problem is is both of you are somewhat of an anomaly but neither of you understand that. So people will/may be hurt in the process: your kids, new partners, etc. But neither of you will understand because you’ll think, what’s the problem big deal. Caveat to my perspective: I dated and had a man proposed to me who continued to hook up with his ex-wife for a decade after their divorce. They had two teenage daughters who suspected, but hadn’t confirmed, the situation. When I learned what had been going on, I was absolutely horrified. He either didn’t understand my concerns or was conveniently in denial. He even tried to tell me that “lots of divorced people do this”. I told him I didn’t give an F what divorced people did and that he had no right to bring this messy shit into my life. I obviously dumped him.[/quote]
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