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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You know how you read posts of married people who are miserable and there are comments like "well you ignored all the red flags" or "you knew what he was like before you married him".  That will be you.  He's someone who you will end up unhappily married to because you ignored all the issues when you were dating.  [/quote]

Agree one thousand percent. And this is a HUGE red flag. [/quote]
OP Thanks. I know. I’ll be 33 in June and I’m scared to be single at my age. That’s all it is.[/quote]

I'm the PP and I would much rather be single than be with a man like that. Life is too short. But also, you are ONLY 32! You're still very young. You can and should find someone who values you and treats you better. Do you want to have children with a man who completely dismisses everything you say?[/quote]

+1
Do it for yourself OP. You still have time to find someone who treats you nicely or you can just treat yourself nicely.
I was with someone like this and the breaking point for me was when I was in tears over how completely selfish he was being and I thought- "hoo boy, my brother would not let someone treat me like this. My father would not let someone treat me like this". Hopefully you have high standards like that in your life. If not, think of a character. Would Gomez Addams think this is OK? No he would not. [/quote]
OP The absolutely insane thing is I have an amazing father. Idk why I’ve been tolerating this[/quote]
And your mother? If you’re not securely attached to her, that can still mess up your relational skills and patterns. [/quote]

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