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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why are you giving him the power over dinner? Make what you want for yourself and the kids every single night. Do takeout other nights. Or even Uber Eats, as it’s probably in your budget.

If he joins, he joins. If not, who cares.

This is the equivalent of being annoyed at your friend who always cancels. The advice is always stop making one-on-one plans with that person and have group events where the flaky friend’s absence doesn’t matter.

Take back your power OP. [/quote]
Thanks! You’re probably right. I just love the times when he does call and I can just take the night off, so to speak. I feel so let down when he doesn’t give me a heads up. I guess I could incorporate “nights off” into my weekly routine, but it’s not the same thing as a spontaneous change of plans. I love those. [/quote]

You come across as bizarrely ritualistic/in need of permission. It’s weird AF. I really don’t think he cares what you make. Feels like you’re making this all up in your head. [/quote]

+100. You’re throwing a tantrum about something you can easily control. If you want to make pb and j sandwiches one evening, then do it. He can eat them too. Plan to cook three meals a week or whatever you want to do and then mostly stick to your plan [/quote]

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