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[quote=Anonymous]If you can, outsource. Then figure out if you need to do therapeutic lies or just firm boundaries. She had plenty of time to deal with this before her decline and chose not to so she doesn't get to dictate. You stay calm and professional, but stick to business. Don't give in to any yelling or guilt trips or manipulation if she tries to make you feel bad for not getting top dollar for her junk. You treat her like a highly difficult client-polite, distant, respectful, but firm with boundaries. Do not tolerate any disrespect either. No yelling, just end the conversation and get off phone, leave the visit. You are doing her a favor and appreciation is what you should get.[/quote]
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